Real Excuses Christians Give To Justify Disobeying God


The Bible Says: 1 Timothy 2:9 In like manner also, the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety…. 

Christians Say: “Don’t judge” “God says come as you are” “Why are you talking about her dress, are you jealous?” “You’re too judgmental” “God doesn’t look at the outside, He judges the heart” “We were born naked” “You have a dirty mind, that’s why you think she’s dressed inappropriately” “God sees us all as if we’re naked” “Who are we to judge” ‘Our attire doesn’t depict our heart’  “My clothing has nothing to do with my relationship with God” “God knows my heart” “If anyone looks at me with lust in his eyes, he has a problem, not me”, “Do you expect me to look like an old woman”, ” God made me with curves so I can’t help how my clothing fits, “Are you perfect?” ….

Older Women[Especially Self Proclaimed Followers of Yashua] Are Supposed To Be EXAMPLES Of Modesty And Holiness To The Younger Women Who Are Watching Them. There’s NOTHING Godly About A  Women Showing Her Nakedness. 

Left to Right: Evangelist Shirley Ceasar, Gospel Artists Mary Mary, First Lady Meagan  Good in the blue dress and Gospel Artist Israel Houghton’s wife

 Left Gospel Singer Lexi Allen– Right Gospel Singer Koryn Hawthorne 

Pastor Nkomfa Mkabile’s wife

South African Pastor Nkomfa Mkabile’s wife


The Bible Says: Matthew 19:4-5 Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, for this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one?

Christians Say: ‘Who are we to judge?’ ‘God is love’ ‘There were homosexuals in the bible’ ‘God loves the sinner but hates the sin’ ‘We should be free to love who we want’ ‘No one is perfect’ ‘Sin is sin, one sin isn’t bigger than another’ ‘Who are you to judge’ ‘The bible doesn’t say anything about two women being together’ ‘love is love’  ‘There’s no male or female in heaven’ ‘God doesn’t see gender, He sees the heart’…


The Bible Says: Mathew 5:27-28 You have heard that it was said, Do not commit adultery, But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart

Christians Say: ‘The devil made me do it’ ‘I’m only human’ ‘We all fall short of the glory of God’ ‘I fell into sin’ ‘I have a lust demon’ ‘ he without sin cast the first stone’ ‘My husband/wife cheated on me first’ ‘Who are we to judge’  ‘Men will be men’ ‘ She must have done something to make him do it’ ‘ She seduced him’… 


The Bible Says: Ephesians 5:25-33  Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church:  For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones…… 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.

Christians Say: ‘She nags too much’ ‘we don’t share the same vision’ “he’s lazy” “she’s fat” ‘I’m tired of this marriage’ ‘he’s too demanding’ ‘ she’s not the same woman that I married’ ‘he’s changed since marriage’ ‘it’s too difficult to love her/him’ ‘she doesn’t deserve to be treated nice'”It’s her fault” “it’s his fault” “a man will be a man” “everyone sins”, “she made me do it” “he made me do it,” “she’s not submissive” “Do you think that God wants us to be unhappy?”…




The Bible Says: Thou shall not steal (Exodus 20:15)

Christians Say: ‘It’s not really stealing‘ ‘no one will ever know’ ‘I’m just borrowing it, i’ll pay it back’ ‘God forgive me’ ‘God knows my heart’ ‘ No sin is any bigger than the other’ ‘No one is without sin’ ‘Don’t judge’ ‘Maybe he/she were hungry’ ‘The devil made me do it’ ‘I’ll do anything to help my family’ …


God Says:  Honor your father and your mother, as the LORD your God has commanded you, so that your days may be long and that it may go well with you in the land the LORD your God is giving you (Deuteronomy 5:16) .

Christians Say: ‘My mother/father left me when I was a baby, why should I honor him/her?’ ‘My father abused me’ ‘ My mother and I don’t get along’ ‘My parents don’t call me’ ‘My father doesn’t love me’ ‘My grandparents raised me, therefore I will honor them instead of my parents’ ‘My grandmother is my natural mother’ ‘My father wasn’t there when I needed him’ ‘My parents don’t respect me, why should I honor them?’



GOD SAYS:   Jeremiah 10:1-5 says “Hear the word which the LORD speaks to you, O house of Israel. Thus says the LORD: do not learn the way of the Gentiles, do not be dismayed at the signs of heaven, for the Gentiles are dismayed at them. For the customs of the peoples are futile; for one cuts a tree from the forest, the work of the hands of the workman, with the ax. They decorate it with silver ad gold; they fasten it with nails and hammers so it will not topple. They are upright, like a palm tree, and they cannot speak; the must be carried, because they cannot go by themselves. Do not be afraid of them, for they cannot do evil, nor can they do any good.”

  • Many believe that this verse is talking about the Christians’ traditional Christmas tree, but it’s not. These verses are actually talking about the practice of making an idol from the trunk of a tree [Isaiah 40;19,20 and 44:14-17] Isaiah and Jeremiah declare the futility of making idols and worshiping them. However- Yah instructs His chosen ones to NOT LEARN THE WAY OF THE GENTILES and the celebration of Christmas and all other holidays which are pagan certainly falls under this category. 

Christians say: “It’s harmless” “I know it’s pagan, but…” “It’s for the children” “My family has celebrated Christmas for years” “It’s a celebration of the life of Jesus” “There’s nothing wrong with it” “God knows my heart and He knows its for Jesus” “The kids get free candy” “It’s harmless, it’s ran by my church” “The pastor says it’s okay” “God wants us to be happy” “Do you think that God created us to not enjoy life” “God wants us to enjoy this life”… “Show me in the scriptures where we can’t celebrate Christmas…”

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God says: Come out of her my people that ye be not partakers of her sins, and that ye receive not of her plagues [Rev 18:14]

Christians say: “This isn’t Babylon” “The ones who don’t go to church is in Babylon” “The worldly one’s are in Babylon” “Those who don’t accept Christ are in Babylon” “Those who don’t accept Jesus as God are in Babylon” ” God knows that no one is perfect, surely He won’t destroy everyone together” “God forgives us all, He wont punish us for sinning every now and then” “God isn’t as hard as you make Him out to be”, “Jesus has already taken away our sins” “God knows my heart”…

God says: “Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy. Six days you shall labor, and do all your work, but the seventh day is a Sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, you, or your son, or your daughter, your male servant, or your female servant, or your livestock, or the sojourner who is within your gates. For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, and rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy. [Exodus 20:8-11]

Christians say: “The Pope has the authority to change the Sabbath,” “Saturday Sabbath is for the Jews” “There’s nothing wrong with going to church on Sunday and resting on that day” “I’ve got to make a living, I’ve got to work on Saturday”, “Jesus debunked the Sabbath day”, “No one can keep all of God’s commandments, He knows that no one can keep them all”, “We are saved by grace so not being holy on the Sabbath has been nailed to the cross” “The real Sabbath is spiritual, it’s not for now” “That’s why there is grace, God knew that we would sin”…


GOD SAYS: Some Pharisees came and tested him by asking, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife?” “What did Moses command you?” he replied. They said, “Moses permitted a man to write a certificate of divorce and send her away.” “It was because your hearts were hard that Moses wrote you this law,” Jesus replied. “But at the beginning of creation God ‘made them male and female.’ ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.’ So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” When they were in the house again, the disciples asked Jesus about this. He answered, “Anyone who divorces his wife and marries another woman commits adultery against her. And if she divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery.”[Mark 10:2-12].  * Man created divorce, not God; it was never God’s will for a man and woman to divorce each other HOWEVER; divorce is permitted but to remarry while the other spouse is still alive is ADULTERY. 
CHRISTIANS SAY: “God knows that I’m too young to remain unmarried” “You mean to tell me that I have to live alone the rest of my life until he/she dies?” “That’s not fair”, “God is a just God, surely He knows that I was in an abusive marriage”, “My wife wouldn’t have sex when I wanted her to, God will understand why I must remarry”, “The times have changed since the laws were implemented”, “my culture allows a man to have more than one wife”. “The men of the bible had more than one wife”, We’re no longer under the law, “my pastor is re-married and his ex-wife is still alive,” “God knew we were going to divorce before we did, he will forgive us for remarrying”,” I can’t wait for all 3 of my ex’s to die before I remarry again”



What excuses do YOU make for not obeying Yah? Yah won’t FORCE YOU to obey Him– you have to love Him more than you love yourself in order to follow Him and keep all of His commandments.  No matter what excuse you make for disobeying Him, He gave us no exceptions, therefore; disobedience will be rewarded with punishment no matter who you are, your position in the church, how many years you’ve been baptized, or how spiritual you are. If you are guilty of these sins- or any sin not mentioned and have not repented, REPENT NOW while there is still time and refuse to revisit those sins again. Commit yourself to honor God from this day forth and obey ALL of His commandments.  He will forgive you. 









26 thoughts on “Real Excuses Christians Give To Justify Disobeying God

  1. This is wonderful, and so true! We’re all guilty for not fearing God as we should… that “little white lie” is still a lie, comparing your wife to someone else’s wife is so wrong- we can all find were we fall short of disobeying God in one way or another.

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  2. It can’t get any plainer than this! They make excuses for not obeying the word of God which is why they are too afraid to rebuke same sex marriage and other sexual sins publicly!


  3. There is ABSOLUTELY no fear of God with these people and they arent even ashamed of themselves. Mary Mary where clothes that are so tight they may as well walk around naked, and I dont know why all of these women think someone wants to see their breasts, PUT SOME CLOTHES ON! This is the example of Christianity!


  4. You should see how they dress in church these days… The men in the church sit there and enjoy then go home with sex demons because they’ve been lusting the entire church service! It’s really a shame


  5. Nothing but the truth! Christianity is a BIG JOKE TODAY. The biggest enemies of Christianity are Christians themselves. It’s only a profitable market these days that is so lucrative that EVERYONE wants in on it! It’s a quick payday and any gifted person can be an entrepreneur in this sector. The stress the term”come as you are” to excuse their immodest clothing and behavior. The “worldly” people can even see this. Babylon is falling indeed and those who truly love God had better run out or else be destroyed together with the inhabitants of her!


  6. So true, especially when it comes to holidays Christians will make all type of excuses for disobeying God. It’s no longer hidden that the holidays are all Pagan in origin, yet those who claim to love God so much can separate themselves from the Gentiles and not partake in their evil holidays. It makes me wonder where these Christian preachers get their gifts of prophecy from, because EVERY ONE OF THEM disobey God by partaking in these holidays and everything else mentioned in this thread!


  7. Question. I married someone who is divorced and his ex-wife is still alive. He was a pastor when we married and never told me that I would be committing adultery if I married him. The bible says that adulterers can’t go to heaven, what can i do?


  8. Sister Chelsea, 1 John 1:9 says If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. This means that you and your husband must come together before God as a couple and ask to be granted repentance! If repentance is granted you must sincerely repent and vow to NEVER repeat the same sin again, fasting along with repenting would be beneficial. God will forgive you. HOWEVER; lets say that after repenting to God and vowing to NEVER repeat the sin again your husband asks you for a divorce. You or him are not allowed to remarry or to have sexual relations with another unless one of you dies or else you will be committing adultery again. You repented so that God would forgive you, and if you repeat the sin of adultery again you will be judged for this act of adultery as well as the past act that you repented of because you have broken your vow with God. FURTHERMORE, If your husband is still a pastor, he has no business pasturing a church knowing that he is in an adulterous marriage. He must step down until you both have gone before God together as a couple and repented of this sin. If he divorces you he is not suitable to be a pastor again and if you separate from him you also can not remarry or have sexual relations again until he is no longer living. So, it’s either you two reconcile should this marriage not work or remain separated living as an eunuch- not many will accept this truth, but a violation of this will separate you from God, Many don’t know that they are in error with marriage and remarriage because they have been lied to from THEIR PASTORS who tell them things such as,” God knows that you are human and that you will make mistakes” OR “God doesn’t expect you to remain unmarried, you’re still young”. Those are lies! There are too many pastors making this error of marrying after divorce and this mistake will lead others to do the same breaking the commandment of God about adultery which will lead many to be separated from God. Divorce is man made, it was not established by God- God has nothing to do with divorce. The issue of marriage and divorce is a serious topic that must be taught properly so that future generations wont miss God due to this subject that not many want to discuss or elaborate on.


  9. With all of these women wearing skinny jeans, body con dresses and shirts, booty shorts and whatnot, it’s hard for a man to not look and lust after them. I am a man, God created men to desire woman so, what’s a man to do in this environment that we live in now? The worse part about it is that I am married and my wife always catches me looking at women’s behinds but instead of repenting of it I always accuse my wife of having low self esteem, or falsely accusing me and that has done nothing but put a big strain on my marriage.


  10. Christians really need help in this area of dressing modestly, me included. It makes us lose credibility. I was witnessing to someone one time but I failed and they told me it was because my clothes were too tight. If it’s a hindrance to winning someone to Christ, is the revealing or tight clothes worth it? After all, isn’t soul-winning what our calling is all about? We also need to be more loving and prayerful for the singers as well as each other when we notice shortcomings. None of us is perfect. The Bible says to restore one another in the spirit of humility so we won’t fall into the same temptation.


  11. It is so obvious that in this current hour Money and Influence has become a god among the church and it’s so called “Saints”, “Prophets” “Disciplines” etc. I am hard pressed to find a church let alone a gospel singer who is really singing about salvation and the word. Some twenty years ago, people used to look up to Christians and could spot them anywhere and they wanted to be like them and I am so sad to say that is not not the case anymore and it is because of this conformed worldly attitude that is being expressed here. It is unfortunate, but the bible says, that there would come a time when people would lean toward their own doctrine and be taken with those who say what they want to hear, thus having itchy ears. Tim. 4:3


  12. All of this going on in church and I used to be judged because I have tattoos. I was actually told by the preacher that I couldn’t go inside of the church unless I covered my tattoo. I got tattooed when I was young and ignorant but I dress modestly. You will never see me displaying my body parts in public or in private.


  13. What I don’t understand and find strange is that most Western Christian like to say “who are we to judge” or they say to don’t say anything just pray. I want to know 1. What bible are they reading 2. What god are they serving? God tells us to judge righteously. If God has given you the grace to not fornicate, not commit adultery, not steal, not dress like a prostitute, not lie, etc THEN we are able to judge others that do these things righteously. We are living in the last minutes forget the last hour and better take head to all of these warnings from God. Why do we think that God has raised so many people up now exposing all of this evil that has been swept under the rug for so long. God calls evil EVIL because that is what it is and it is disgusting to him. God would rather be in the presence of the decaying corpses of dogs than to be in the presence of someone that sins against Him.


  14. My pastor has an ex-wife who is still living and he has remarried as well as most of the prophets that come to our church and lay hands on people. My pastor who was married for 11 years blames his wife for their divorce and says that God has granted him permission to divorce his wife and remarry another one. I asked him, why would God break his laws for you pastor? What makes you so special? It is still adultery to remarry while the ex is still alive even if you are the Pope!


  15. We’re living in such a sick society that Christians KNOW that they are living wrong but will convince themselves that they are right and everyone else is wrong or “listening to a wrong spirit”. Don’t worry if you loose your family or friends standing on the truth! God will be your mother and father sister and brother. Just stand,even if you have to stand alone. This is a real war that we are in, the last days are here already. Hold on to holiness and continue to open the eyes of the blind.


  16. It’s about time someone said something about the church women looking like strippers and hookers! Not only in church do they wear makeup so thick till they look like clowns and dresses so short they can’t sit down without putting a cloth on their laps, they do it in public and it’s utterly embarrassing to say the least. So called Christians have been so taken away with the world till they can’t even fake being holy! I’ve seen so called men of God (married and single) lusting after women. Any woman that passes them with tight pants on they almost jump out of their shoes breaking their necks to look at their behinds. It’s sickening to observe and then when you try to check one of them they will often say that they weren’t looking at anything. On the issue of stealing, you’re right but the real truth is that Christians are thieves themselves stealing in tithes and offerings, stealing by lying thus robbing the other of the truth. Christians are the ones leading others into sinful marriages. They teach that marriage divorce and remarriage is ethical regardless what the bible says about it. If there is no sexual unfaithfulness in the marriage, God forbids divorce period, if the man puts the wife away he still can not remarry neither can she or it is adultery. If you have already married into adultery simply because you didnt know better the only thing that you can do is to repent and stay faithfully in the marriage but if the marriage ends in divorce neither one can remarry or have sexual relations with another until the ex spouse is no longer alive. I don’t care if your culture allows you to marry more that one wife, it is still adultery according to God and God speaks clearly regarding man made traditions that were designed to please the flesh and not God.


  17. THIS is only one of the reasons why I will NEVER identify as a “Christian”. They are some of the most two-faced, backstabbing, lying, adulterous, whoremonging, disobedient to Gods word than any atheist in existence. The women come to church looking like whores and clowns and the preachers don’t say one word and the preachers wife wont say anything either, that is- if she’s not looking like one of them. Come out of religion people and come into God, that’s the only way to be saved.


  18. I believe truly that those who aren’t interested in following God for real have already been given over to repabation. You can’t even correct Christians these days, they believe that they are above being corrected, in fact they are quick to tell you that “you’re going to hell” OR “I don’t know what you believe” as if what you believe is wrong if it isn’t in line with their false Christianity. I’m greatful that Yah called me out of false Christianity YEARS AGO because it was only then that I learned what true repentance is and true holiness is. God bless the owner of this blog, it is truly refreshing to see others who God is using to expose evil.


  19. This is for all of the black people who now identify as Hebrew. If you’re going to identify as Hebrew then you have to acknowledge the law perfectly. Most of these new Hebrews were Christians, Christians who are quick to judge those who have been married and divorced which is actually a practice adopted by the Romans- Jews never agreed to divorce- ever! What Jesus said to these Jewish men, the Pharisees, in Matthew 19:9 is that divorce and remarriage is sin unless the divorce occurred in the engagement period. Even then the engagement could only be broken if the fiancée committed fornication with another person. Jesus said that if the man divorced his fiancée in the engagement period before marriage occurs, then it is permissible for him to marry another. The exception only applied to the Jewish custom requiring divorce to break an engagement. I could not find any evidence that the Roman law or custom required a certificate of divorce to break an engagement. We do not find the Matthew 19:9 “exception clause” repeated any other place in the Scriptures.
    Now, how many of you were engaged to someone and didn’t divorce him/her before marrying who you are married to now? I’m sure that NO ONE has done it! If you laid in the same bed together sex or no sex YOU WERE MARRIED and should have gotten a divorce during the engagement period. If that didn’t occur and you are now remarried you are an adulteress too!

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  20. There are many many many “spiritual” men (lol, spiritual! everyone is spiritual these days) who allow their wives to go out in public dressed like the heathen women. I know one man who claims to be so spiritual who watches these women with tight pants on, his eyeballs almost pop out of his head looking at these nasty women but his own wife who dresses very modest he treats her terribly. There are a lot of confused people walking around


  21. All of these sinful nonspiritual people are some of what brought this judgment of God upon us! The bottom line is BE HOLY, don’t follow these false preachers, false prophets, seek God for yourselves and REPENT!


  22. What’s really sad is that even know in the midst of this judgement these women are still immodest in their dress attire and their behavior. Life as we once knew it will never be the same, if you woke up this morning and are still alive it’s not too late to repent and change. How difficult is it to put some clothes on and cover your nakedness before God? Do you fear Him at all? God is Holy, and if you really believe He is your Father and you fear Him you would be too afraid of His wrath to continue in your own ways. The sad thing is that these women would dress this way in the presence of their natural fathers who they can see, much less God, our heavenly Father who can’t be seen.


  23. Whats really disgusting is now women are wearing masks because of the virus and are dressed like porn stars and they aren’t even bothered by it! Modesty NOW or judgment later.


  24. Jerome man, I agree with you bro 100%! I believe though that judgement is already here! Going out in public is like being in a strip club, you almost have to put blindfolds on your children before bringing them out- or just leaving them home all together. The sickest of it all is that so many men (especially the men of God) be checking those naked, jezebels out! I know of one so-called man of God who is going through a divorce now because one of his problems is that he couldn’t control his eyes among other things. I’ll tell you one thing, I’m not going to hell because I refuse to control my flesh- how foolish! And how foolish it is for marriages to break up and families torn apart because of the lack of discipline to control your lusts!


  25. Just had an argument with my 16 year old girl who is a Christian and a lover of Mary Mary. She is curvy for a 16 year old, she has the body of a 20 year old. Anyway, she thought that she was going out with a low cut dress on showing waaaay too much cleavage with some tight tight pants on. I stopped her in her tracks and and questioned her (even asked where she got the clothing from, I didnt by them) she said ” Erica Campbell dresses like this all the time and everyone knows she’s a Christian, so whats wrong with me dressing like her”… I was floored to say the least. I had to explain to my daughter that just because Erica Campbell is a Christian doesn’t mean that she’s holy- a holy woman would never let anyone except her husband see her chest or even the shape of her behind, regardless of what everyone else is doing, being holy means to be separate and set apart from everyone else, no matter who they are. I told her too that a holy man who had respect for God, himself, and if wife would never allow his wife to walk around in the public dressed like a prostitute. It was then that I realized what an impact these famous Christian singers have on our children. Parents, don’t let television and social media Christians teach your girls to look like whores, teach them to be holy and present their bodies as living sacrifices. Teach them to be ladies, a true representation of God and His Kingdom and not sex symbols, and divas and have the nerve to put the label “Christian” on it!


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